Category: Tips & Advice

10 Feb 2015

Tough Love. Falling For Yourself

In my second book, “Why Hasn’t He Proposed?” I wrote, “we believe that relationships are what matter in life.” When I went back and reread that, I had to figure out if that still holds true. In the end, I believe I was right. Relationships matter in life. In a breakup or divorce, we (unfortunately) […]

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10 Feb 2015

Dating More Than One Guy

Q: I have a pretty active dating life, but it’s getting hard to juggle my calendar! Any advice on how to make sure I don’t double book and can squeeze everyone in. I don’t want to just date one guy right now after a recent break-up. A: So many men, so little time? What a […]

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10 Feb 2015

Signs He’s The Cheating Kind

I recently had a tough conversation with a friend of mine about cheating. She has been in a relationship with the same man for about six years. She wants to get married. He doesn’t. She has accepted that and is happy with the commitment they have. Except now, she is not so sure he is […]

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10 Feb 2015

How To Be Happy Today

I read a quote recently and it got me thinking about the past. What is is. Where it brings us. And how we get beyond it while still appreciating all that happened to get us to where we are today. Here is the quote by Andre Maurois – “The first recipe for happiness is: avoid […]

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10 Feb 2015

Another Post-Divorce First: The Vacation

I thought I had gone through all of my “firsts” following my divorce. The first post-divorce first date. The first post-divorce holiday back home. The first post-divorce dinner alone. The first post-divorce party with our former couple friends. The list goes on. But, it turns out my list got a new addition this summer: the […]

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10 Feb 2015

Online Dating After Divorce

Online dating can be a full time job. In fact, to make sure you are doing it right, it almost has to be. Though, if you are recently divorced and you want to get back out and date or at least meet some good people, it can be a great way to connect. Let’s look […]

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10 Feb 2015

Post Breakup – Spring Cleaning

I am not angry about my divorce. In fact, my ex and I are actually in a very good place. Just the other day, we were able to joke on the phone a bit, and he even called to ask me for some advice. But, at the end of the day, when I go home […]

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10 Feb 2015

Do You Know The New Single?

Easier said than done, but it is possible. Remember, the dating scene changes all the time. Even if you’ve only been out of it for five years, it’s going to look different when you jump back in. It sure did for me. If you’re in your 40s, don’t run around like you’re in your 20s, […]

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